What truly is a Woman's blessing?

What truly is a Woman's blessing?

What comes in your mind first as an answer to the question is what matters the most because that is what 

defines each and every woman individually reading this...

   I think a Woman's true blessing is having a loving family in law because her life depends on it in an Indian society, everything she is and everything she chooses to be is given a name and an appearance by her family in law and that is the end of a woman's true blessing. It is a blessing and a curse at the same time because she is defined by the works she was born to fulfill and failure to do so would earn her a defamed name in her own small world.

   As Proverbs states that "A wife of a noble character is worth more than rubies" A character which includes an endless if's but what harm is there in her being her own self and defining her own character is she still worth more than rubies? You have to decide and that is a truer blessing which overcomes the curses.