Thoughts on living

   Colours fascinate me, They are my hobby i spent most of my free time painting with it. No wonder! the normal white light we see everyday is in reality seven different colours. People metaphorically speak of masks that everyone wears to pretend to be someone they are not; what if we can just stop pretending, shed off our masks and be the powerful one we want to be deep down?     This multifaceted human being brings me to think about the one first and last decision we make about who we are going to spend the rest of our lives with. Let me take you down the memory lane to the exchange of vows, why do we say it? its not like we are going to keep to it. and to those who have not yet said it guess you have an opportunity to edit it beforehand. Image Credit: Youtube <https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KRmnn7o1mJ0>       In my community, Vows are meant to be repeated; its a meaningless bunch of words designed for the good of the hearers ...

What truly is a Woman's blessing? What comes in your mind first as an answer to the question is what matters the most because that is what  defines each and every woman individually reading this...    I think a Woman's true blessing is having a loving family in law because her life depends on it in an Indian society, everything she is and everything she chooses to be is given a name and an appearance by her family in law and that is the end of a woman's true blessing. It is a blessing and a curse at the same time because she is defined by the works she was born to fulfill and failure to do so would earn her a defamed name in her own small world.    As Proverbs states that "A wife of a noble character is worth more than rubies" A character which includes an endless if's but what harm is there in her being her own self and defining her own character is she still worth more than rubies? You have to decide and that is a truer blessing which overc...